When you ask your girlfriend questions, she might feel you’re interrogating her. So, it’s always good to start with interesting questions like these and help her feel comfortable about the conversation…

If you could time travel 5 years in the past, what would you do?
If you could time travel 10 years in the future, what would you do?
What places have you traveled to?
What places do you want to travel to?
What do you think about the latest issue about *insert any local/international issue*?
What are you most passionate about currently?
What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
What’s your dream job?
What body language is a total dating dealbreaker for you?
Do you think you have any deal breakers? If yes, what’s it?
Which fictional character do you relate to the most?
What’s your favorite season? What do you like about it?
Which festival can you not wait to celebrate? What are your plans for this year? What did you do last year?
Do you want to continue working in your current company or current field of studies?
What’s your favorite memory about your hometown or the colony you grew up in?
What do you wish to do on the last day of your life?
Which movie is your all-time favorite and why is it so?
Which is your proudest moment of life?
Do you have any hidden talents?
What kind of life do you picture 10 years down the lane?

Once she feels cozy and feels eager from the previous section, you can dig deeper with thought-provoking questions like these…

Deep Questions to Ask a Girlfriend know her better

Ask her deep questions to show that you don’t just want to make superficial small talk until you lead her to your bed… but know her as a person because you love her with questions like these…

Did you stop pursuing any of your passions?
How’d you describe yourself as a kid?
What must a perfect date include?
What’s the best dating advice you’ve ever got?
If you could live anywhere, where would you go?
If you could go on vacation to any place of your choice, where would you go?
If you could get the job of whatever you like, where would you be?
What do you love the most about this city?
What do you hope would change about this city?
How do your friends describe you?
If you could talk to animals, which animal would you approach first?
What goals in life have you reached?
What’s your biggest fear?
What bad habit did you successfully get rid of and feel proud of it?
What do you think are the good and bad sides of having siblings?
According to you, what happens after death?
Which of your senses is the weakest?
Do you see the glass as half full or half empty?
What do you usually take for granted? Do you feel guilty?
Do you believe in reincarnation?

A few of these questions can make her feel comfortable enough to open up about her inner circle and personal life like her family and friends. So, let’s see what we find here…

Personal Questions to Ask a Girlfriend know her better

To bond well with your girlfriend, you both must share intimate details about your life and bear your wounds and happiness. So, let’s spend an emotional moment here…

Why did you and your best friends become BFFs?
What are your most embarrassing moments till now?
What’s your worst childhood memory?
What childhood memories do you want to never forget?
What’s something you would like to tell your younger self?
What’s something you would like your older self to remember?
When was the last time you dreamed of something sad?
What is the worst nightmare you saw to date?
What’s the worst punishment you’ve ever faced?
Do you have any regrets? What are they?
What kind of bond do you have with your loved ones?
Who do you think loves you the most?
If you knew the time and place of your death, how would you feel?
What do you wish the most from life right now?
What incident changed you as a person?
Did you ever lose faith in humanity? When?
When did you feel like you were the weakest in the world?
Are you anyone’s greatest strength? If yes, how?
Who is your greatest motivator?
When you were little, what did you want to become?

The mood probably turned extremely heavy and uncomfortable after a few of these questions. But don’t worry, it’s natural and you can fix both of your moods with fun questions down here…

Funny Questions to Ask a Girlfriend know her better

Nothing is better than sharing funny moments with each other to get to know your girl. Starting from her most embarrassing moments right to the sweet ones, find them all here…

What’s the funniest pickup line you’ve ever heard?
If someone farts around you, what would you do other than scrunching your nose?
What’s your worst impulsive purchase to date?
Did you ever think someone is too attractive and you rejected yourself?
Did you ever feel sorry when someone proposed to you because you knew your rejection would hurt them?
Do you ever baby talk?
What’s the funniest moment of your life?
What food were you excited to have turned out bad?
If you become a man for a day, what would you do first?
What do you love about being a girl?
Which do you think is a better pet? Cockroach or Spider?
Did anyone ever walk on you while you were stark nude?
What’s your most favorite retro song?
What are your tickle zones?
What punishment did you secretly enjoy in childhood?
If we could communicate with animals, which animal would be the meanest?
What object do you think must not exist in this world?
Did your parents ever embarrass you publicly? How?
Did you ever embarrass your parents publicly? If yes, how?
How long did you ever go without a shower or bath? How badly did you smell?

But, in case you want to change the mood into flirtatious, and want to spend time watching her blush in shame, I think I have just what you need here…

Flirty Questions to Ask a Girlfriend know her better

In a relationship, flirting is the ultimate way to bond. But before that, you must know what kind of flirting your girl likes and you can find it all with these…

How long do you take to know someone before you start dating?
How do you expect your date to dress up?
How do you know that you’ve got your special someone?
Which fictional character did you want to marry?
What do you think is the secret of long-term relationships?
Did you ever have a one-night stand? If yes, how do you feel about it? If not, why?
What’s your dirtiest fantasy?
What kind of feedback do you get about kissing?
What’s the most intimate thing you can do on your first date?
Did you ever do something you shouldn’t?
Did you ever try skinny dipping?
What do you think about French kissing in public?
Who usually makes the first move in your relationships?
If you were to be stuck with me in a room for 24 hours, what would you do?
Do you ever get butterflies around me?
When was the last time you thought of texting me but changed your mind later?
Did you stalk my social media before we started dating? What did you deduce about me from that?
What attracted you to me?
What trait do you think every partner should possess?
Do you like showers or baths? What do you think of sharing one to save water?

On the other hand, if you’re a spontaneous soul and can’t really stick to themes of questions, you can still get to know her while she learns about your spontaneity here…

Random questions to know her better

If you ask her random questions, she’ll have a lot to think about due to the drastic difference in topics. You’ll know exactly how her mind works and if both of your spontaneity match these questions…

Do you want to be rich or everyone’s beloved?
Do you have a hard time parting with things you don’t need anymore?
Which is your most liked day of the week?
Do you hoard anything?
What’s the name of your pet? What would you name them if you had one?
Do you snore? If yes, why?
Do you like the idea of girls proposing to guys?
What do you usually fidget with?
Will you be comfortable being trapped in the dark for 24 hours?
What song will always get you dancing?
How many shots until you black out?
Will you be comfortable being stuck in *insert your most hated singer*’s concert?
How long do you take to fall in love
When did you last lie?
What superpower do you wish to have?
What’s the most random thing you saw on social media today?
Does your voice change when you deal with strangers?
How do you usually feel when you wake up?
What’s your favorite animal? Do you have a particular reason?
What’s your worst-liked food?

But, if you want to drive on the romantic lane of your relationship, who am I to stop you? In fact, I’ll just give you a hard push to spark the romance down here…

Romantic questions to know her better

Hardly any girl can resist romance… girls die to see their man’s romantic side as it makes them feel cherished and loved. So, while knowing more about her, give her what she wants here…

Who’s your celebrity crush?
How do you usually spend your alone time?
Which TV show romance do you want in your life?
Which kind of love language do you relate the most to?
When did you last blush and why?
If you could elope with me right now, would you and where?
What romantic gesture will you always swoon over?
How do you feel safe and protected with a partner?
What’s more romantic: Candle lights or fairy lights?
What kind of destination weddings do you like the most?
What is your dream destination to fall in love with?
What do you think about the idea of soulmates?
What kind of gifts touch your heart more?
Do you like sunrise or sunset and why?
What was your ideal date night in your childhood?
Do you think I lack romance? If yes, how should I make up for it?
Do you have a dream romantic date?
When was the last time my “I love you” made your heart skip a beat?
Would you share a piece of chocolate cake if I can’t afford two or buy me one? Why?
What did you think when I first approached you?

If you don’t want any themed questions but also hope to stay entertained together, the all-time good ones are here to the rescue…

Good questions to know her better

If you’re a straightforward person and want to know your girlfriend well as a person ASAP, that’s a great choice. So, to meet your needs, we’re here with the good ones…

Why did you break up from the last relationship?
Were you ever involved in a serious relationship?
Who initiated the break-up in your last relationship?
How did you cope with your last breakup?
What do you hate doing in your free time?
Which TV shows help you grow as a person?
What do you believe that other people don’t agree with?
Did you ever share a room with anyone? Friend, sibling, parent, or partner?
Do you like to be friends with your exes?
Do you think you’re a jealous or clingy lover?
What’s the worst thing you did to a lover out of jealousy?
Did you ever date a clingy partner? How did you feel about it?
What are your non-negotiable boundaries?
How are your parent’s relationships with each other? How do you feel about it?
When was the last time you felt infuriated and why?
How do you usually express and deal with your anger?
How do you deal with criticism?
When was the last time you were criticized and for what? Have you worked on it?
How long do you spend on social media?
What’s one thing you can’t ever forgive a man for?

Though good, these questions might give away an interrogative air. So, never ask these questions alone and mix them up with these to help her feel loved and comfortable…

Cute questions to know her better

If your girlfriend is the innocent kind, the cute questions are the best to help you warm her up for the important ones later or know what her innocent heart feels about your thoughts like these…

Do you feel men are attractive in briefs or boxers?
Do you like spontaneous plans?
How long can you talk on the phone at night?
When was the last time you cried over a rom-com?
How do you practice self-love?
Did you ever randomly act kindly to anyone?
Who do you usually spend your birthday with?
Which children’s book do you love the most?
Which soft toy is your favorite?
How do you comfort a sad person?
What’s your favorite meal?
Which school subject did you like the most?
What do you usually dream about?
How do you plan to live after retirement?
Which playground game do you miss playing?
In childhood, did you have a secret hideout? How was it?
What is on your must-do bucket list?
What’s your one dream that you have had for a long time but have yet to fulfill?
How would you feel if I were to be arrested right now?
How frequently do you jump to conclusions?

If you want to have a good time together or are looking for good conversation starters, we have genius questions that help you enjoy everything at once here…

Great questions to know her better

If you want to make sure whether she’s happy in the relationship or her personal life, if you feel worried about her… hey there, caring man! This one goes out for you…

Do you like alone time or together time?
What do you like the best about your family traditions?
Do you journal regularly?
How do you motivate yourself?
How do you feel about choosing date ideas and activities on behalf of both of us? Or do you want me to put in more effort?
Do you think we communicate well in our relationship?
Are you dissatisfied with any part of our relationship?
Do you feel supported in the relationship?
How many secrets can you keep?
How do you feel about my loved ones?
What’s the best advice you got from my loved ones?
Do you think I treat your loved ones well?
Do you remember what you dream of? What are they usually?
Do you ever feel déjà vu?
Which of our dates is your most favorite out of all?
Which moment of our relationship would you like to relive?
What’s the greatest change you’ve made in me and feel proud of it?
What are my bad habits that you want me to quit?
How can I help you a bit more?
What do you find the best and worst about me?

Wondering what other ways you can make your relationship fun and know her better? Let’s get to know them here…

Questions games to play with your girlfriend that will deepen the relationship

If you want to find out more about such questions that can help you bond with your girlfriend and fall in love with her awesome soul, there are lots of other question games dedicated to couples and their moods. So, here you go with some…

1. Would you rather

This questions game includes questions about choosing one of the two situations you prefer.

For instance, “share a bed with a fidgety roommate or share a room with a snoring roommate?” Or, “have unlimited Wi-Fi or have unlimited scrolls and taps?” The equally tough situations make them hard to choose/

2. This or that

Much like the last one, in this game you give your girlfriend two options like “chocolate or vanilla”, “fall or spring”, or “pizza or burger”, and she answers the ones she prefers out of the two.

You both can definitely make it even tougher and raise the difficulty level as you desire.

3. Who’s most likely to

In this questions game, either of you read out questions with a description like “who’s most likely to snore in bed” and you guys can choose which of you is the perfect fit for the description.

You can play it just with her or you can play it on double dates or even with other groups.

4. 21 questions

In this game, you both can ask each other 21 questions each at a stretch or alternatively. So each round consists of a total of 42 questions.

You can choose a theme like here in this list, personal, deep, funny, or anything else you desire.

5. Yes or No

In this questions game, you give totally unrelated options to choose from and your girlfriend must answer with a yes or a no. For instance, “do you like to spend time with me more than having pizza?”

A word from ThePleasantConversation

While you try to know more about your girlfriend, make sure you stay thoughtful and funny. Make sure you don’t disrespect and if she doesn’t want to answer a question, let her skip… the same goes for when you answer questions.

On the other hand, when she answers, listen carefully. You’ll learn more about her feelings and the kind of person she is, and you can even use them as interesting conversation starters.

So, make the best use of the questions!

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